Grief and Loss
Losing someone or something you care about is painful. And grief always follows. It’s a normal process, with both physical and emotional signs. But even with major life changes, such as the loss of a spouse or parent, you can face the loss and move on.
Losses We Grieve Over
Everyone feels a major loss at some point in life. These are just some of the types of loss you might be facing:
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The death of a family member or friend
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Health issues such as a permanent injury, chronic illness, or aging
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A breakup, separation, or divorce
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The loss of a job, a change in income, or other life changes.
How Loss Changes Us
Loss leaves a “hole” in your life where what you lost used to be. The loss can affect the way you see yourself. Your daily routine changes if you have lost a partner, child, or parent. Your self-image may change if you are no longer healthy. After a divorce, you may need to think about life on your own.
Grief Takes Many Forms
Grief isn’t just about sadness. It may make you experience a range of intense feelings. In fact, grief is sometimes described as having five stages. They are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. You can shift from one stage to another in any order. So from moment to moment, you may:
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Not want to believe the loss is real.
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Feel annoyed or outright angry.
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Think you could have done something to stop the loss.
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Have sad moods and feel hopeless.
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Accept that the loss is real and that you can cope.
