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Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a serious medical illness. It can make close relationships difficult to maintain, and it may cause the affected person and their loved ones great pain. But BPD can be treated, and the symptoms can be eased. If a loved one has signs of BPD, start by talking to your doctor or a mental health professional. They can offer guidance and support.

Man talking with Doctor.

What Is BPD?

People with BPD want to be loved, yet they push others away. The relationships they do have are stormy. People with BPD can fly into rages for no reason. Sometimes they just need to lash out. At other times, they may feel out of touch with life. And the way they see themselves may change often. Their values, beliefs, and goals also may change.

Who Does It Affect?

The cause of BPD isn’t fully known. Most likely, many factors play a role. Some people with borderline personality disorder may have been abused as children. Others may have suffered neglect or been abandoned. And some may have serious head injuries. BPD may also have a genetic component and it seems to run in families.

Getting Better

Counseling (psychotherapy) is the main treatment for BPD. Working with a therapist, a person with BPD can learn how best to cope with problems. They can also learn ways to control their feelings. Medications can help control depression and anxiety. Still, it may take a while before symptoms get better. But don’t lose hope. In time, your loved one can have a more healthy and happy life.

Someone with BPD will have at least five of these symptoms:

  • Intense fears of being left alone and frantic efforts to avoid it

  • A pattern of stormy relationships

  • A self-image that changes often

  • Actions that cause harm, such as using drugs or alcohol

  • Wide mood swings

  • Intense anger or outbursts

  • Feelings of being out of touch with life

  • Thoughts of harming themselves or committing suicide

  • Chronic feelings of emptiness

Resources

  • National Institute of Mental Health

    866-615-6464

    www.nimh.nih.gov

  • National Alliance on Mental Illness

    800-950-6264

    www.nami.org

  • Mental Health America

    800-969-6642

    www.nmha.org

  • National Suicide Hotline

    800-784-2433 (800-SUICIDE)

 

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